My Boyfriend says I can Explore My Kinks with Other Dudes

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Is he bluffing?

The BB Team’s favorite sex advice column Savage Love and columnist Dan Savage respond to two kinky questioners: Guy’s Abandoned Yearnings Subtly Undermining Bond (GAYSUB) and Talking Over Perversions (TOP).

Appearing in Coachella Valley Independent, GAYSUB is worried that his relatively new boyfriend is bluffing when he says OK to GAYSUB’s desire to explore kinks with other guys…while at the same time his boyfriend wants the option to be intimate with someone else if a connection happens. Savage provides an indepth response but also says that “you’re gonna wanna act on your kinks a least half a dozen times before you get a dog or a mortgage.”

TOP seems to have a recurring kink theme with guys he has dated…they all want to be tied up, called names and be hurt. Why? Find out what Savage says. It’s pretty interesting stuff!

And we thought Coachella was only interested in music festivals!

 

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October 12, 2021

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