Basically, we are About Bottoms. But we also love tops and everything in between.
Bottom Basics combines our love of men of all ages and types, learning more about M4M sex, Pride, spotting gay trends, and offering unique, creative + cool items on the web.
We don’t care if you identify as a bottom, top, versatile or none-of-the-above. We are all unique individuals. We do care that you enjoy a refreshed Bottom Basics. Let us know!
ABOUT OUR CONCEPT
Bottom Basics is an intriguing one-stop online lifestyle resource and shop for discerningly cool gay, queer and bisexual men. The BB Team is led by our hearts, quirky humor and a healthy dose of imagination!
ABOUT BOTTOM BASICS 101
Explore our new infotainment lifestyle resource area, Bottom Basics 101. You can spend hours going through the two exciting sections: SEX + TRENDING GAY. You’ll find selective, informative videos and article links on sexual enjoyment, how-to, tips for basic beginner to power bottoms (and tops!), trends in sexual and mental health, looking good, culture and fun content.
The BB Team even coined and/or popularized a few new words, such as Gayology, which according to yours truly, defines pertinent issues and research in the “ologies” of biology, psychology and sociology impacting our lives. Plus, since we are all getting older, it’s a must to focus on Aging Gayfully (another new word for your gay vocabulary, which we hope is self-explanatory, but if not, it means living a full and gay life).
We promise to continually discover and deliver the most relevant, humorous and useful online material for you. We spend hours to curate so you don’t have to! Just easily click the links.
ABOUT OUR GIFTS + GEAR SHOP
Enter our Gifts + Gear Shop for just the right curated collection of unique, custom printed products you and your friends will want. From cute to cool to a little bit naughty, you’ll find the latest accessories, apparel and home + lifestyle goods to embrace your tongue-in-cheeks individuality.
ABOUT OUR BLOG + CONNECTIONS
Our Blog will keep you on top of Bottom Basics. From news to stories to our travels to gaydar and queer finds, the BB Team hopes our blogposts will be some of the best pieces of Bottom Basics!
LIVE · LOVE · THRIVE · SHOP
We’ve got you covered...from bottom to top!
THE BB TEAM
We come from different backgrounds, by way of the backwater bayous of Louisiana and the golden hill streets of gay San Francisco. We’ve been great friends since the founding of Twitter, and have tweeted to each other thousands of times. We like to believe we are discerning gay men.
Things Raw · Globetrotting · Pride festivals
Overpacked airport lounges · Mosquitos · Clowns
Dreaming of Zaddy · First Class seats · Very early retirement
NYC · Tacos · Music · Living life
Rainy days · Impatient people · 'No open tables'
Dreaming of sailing · Beach-side dining · (Of course) Tacos!
LOCATION: NEW YORK, NY
LOCATION: FORT LAUDERDALE, FL
Sometimes, my experiences with anal sex is pure, toe-curling euphoria that I wish would never stop. Other times, it feels like I’m being gutted and things can’t end quickly enough. As a result, I’ve always felt that, if my bottoming skills aren’t up to par, I should assume the position that I’m more confident in even if it doesn’t necessarily match my desires.