The Gay Sex Guide to Dildos

A few short gay generations ago, the only dildos that gay and experimenting men could find were geared towards women, and found in out-of-the-way seedy adult bookstores and trashy sex shops. Today, from the comfort of your own boudoir, you can order dildos on Amazon and get Prime delivery overnight. How times have changed!

Pink News writer Danny Harrop-Griffiths aka Danny Polaris says, “Dildos come in many different shapes, sizes and guises. But what is the best dildo for anal sex? This massively depends on what you’re using the dildo for. On one end of the scale, it could be that you want to start experimenting with anal, or maybe you just want to find out what it feels like having something inside your butt. On the other end, you might be an anal pro and want the biggest sex toy possible.”

Polaris guides you through the ins and outs of the various types of dildos for various purposes, and also how to use your big (?) new tool.

As an added plus Pink News found and spoke to Ashley Ryder, porn star and performance artist, “famous for being able to fit almost anything in his ass, about his top tips and tricks for using dildos safely.”

What Polaris and Ryder drive home is that the real key to conquering any size isn’t brute force—it’s patience, plenty of slick lubrication, and choosing the right material. Body-safe platinum silicone has completely taken over for good reason: it warms up to body temperature, offers just the right amount of flexible give, and cleans up effortlessly with simple soap and warm water. Plus, the golden rule of anal play remains undefeated: always make sure whatever you invite past the gates has a solid, flared base to keep your solo adventure strictly in the bedroom and well out of the urgent care waiting room!

Don’t forget to view Danny’s companion piece, “The Gay Sex Guide to Lube“!

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Sunday October 10, 2021