Human beings are very good at trying something once and deciding indefinitely that we don't like it.
Top or bottom or vers? Some combo of the above? This is a solid resource from Alim Kheraj with tactics on how to figure out what’s right for you. GQ with gay-centric articles in their Culture section? It certainly has come a long way from the old Gentlemen’s Quarterly years.
Kheraj writes that, “Human beings are very good at trying something once and deciding indefinitely that we don’t like it. In the case of anal sex, this is usually because of an experience from when we were young and hadn’t quite realized the importance of lube (USE LOTS OF LUBE). So how do you go about testing new waters?”
Several experts are interviewed, including Woody Miller, author of the books How to Bottom Like a Porn Star and How to Top Like a Stud. Miller explains, “I believe in what I call taking your erotic temperature, which is basically having a conversation with yourself about what it is you like.”
Time to take your temp?