How to Ride a Guy for Gay Men: 12 Anal Master Tips!

Yeehaw, that subtitle about maximum pleasure and avoid pain got the BB Team’s attention! Offering “Anal Master Tips” means we put this in the Power Bottoms category, but the article is good information for all bottoms.

Men’s Variety addresses both the physical and psychological components of riding a guy. Plus getting to know your anus and a shootout, oops, shoutout to Gun Oil lube.

12 short, great riding tips run the gamut from Ride a Guy Clean, to Ride a Guy Mindset, to Ride a Guy Control, to Ride a Guy Squat.

By the time you finish reading this article, you’ll be ready to ride a guy with confidence! And if nothing else, to make it worth your while, there are plenty of hot cowboy pics (like the breakout debut of young Brad Pitt‘s $6,000 abs in Thelma & Louise sigh; yes, he only earned $6,000 for his role as J.D. so that’s a measly $1,000 for each ab).

• Tip 1: Set the Pace Early — Take complete command of entry speed and depth from the very first drop so your body dictates the tempo, not his.
• Tip 2: Master the Pelvic Tilt — Shift and angle your hips slightly forward or backward rather than bouncing straight up and down to consistently target the prostate.
• Tip 3: Engage Your Thighs and Core, Not Just Your Knees — Drive the motion through your quads, glutes, and abdominal wall to protect your knee joints and build lasting stamina.
• Tip 4: Keep High-Grade Lube Within Arm’s Reach — Never break rhythm to go searching—keep your slick of choice directly at bedside for frictionless, on-the-fly re-application.

• Tip 5: Breathe Through the Initial Descent — Exhale deeply and steadily on the downward stretch to naturally relax the pelvic floor and eliminate tension.

• Tip 6: Vary Your Orientation (Reverse & Straddle) — Switch between classic straddle, reverse cowboy, and chest-to-chest leaning to hit different internal angles and give your legs a breather.

• Tip 7: Anchor and Direct with Your Hands — Plant your hands firmly on his chest, hips, or shoulders to stabilize your balance and physically control his movement.

• Tip 8: Incorporate Circular Grinding — Alternate vertical lifting with slow, rhythmic circular hip rotations to maximize surface contact without burning out your quads.

• Tip 9: Lock In Your Pre-Game Prep — Eliminate mental hesitation beforehand with daily soluble fiber and a clean routine so you ride with complete confidence.

• Tip 10: Use Strategic Leverage (Pillows & Wedges) — Prop a firm bolster beneath his lower back or under your knees to dial in optimal elevation and eliminate lower back fatigue.

• Tip 11: Sync Your Rhythm to His Cadence — Lock into his breathing and subtle hip responses to create a unified, locked-in pace rather than an exhausting, erratic race.

• Tip 12: Prioritize Your Sensation First — Remember that being on top gives you full ownership of pleasure—focus unapologetically on what feels intensely good for you, and his satisfaction will follow naturally.

The BB Team also found the companion piece, “10 Tips for Being a Great Top and to Rock a Bottom Out.”