In  Pink News, writer Danny Polaris starts out: “But if baby you’re the bottom, I’m the top!” So goes the old song lyric. But Cole Porter probably wasn’t talking about anal. We are. Find out how to be a better f*cker with our guide to the active sexual role.”

While Polaris gets “pitcher” and “catcher” reversed, this light-hearted but practical guide is still good reading. He knocks off stereotypes, discusses responsibility, what and how to stimulate, and perhaps most importantly, emphasizes “it’s not all about you.”

If you enjoyed this article, we’ve also posted Polaris’ companion piece, “How to be a Bottom.”

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Wednesday September 8, 2021