Looking beyond gay tops and bottoms.
This article will appeal to anyone who doesn’t necessarily feel like a ‘top’ or ‘bottom.’ What and where are all the ‘sides?’
HuffPost contributor Joe Kort, Ph.D., is a certified sex and relationship therapist. He writes, “There’s so much talk and discussion about who gives and who receives. I’ve had straight people tell me that they assumed that most gay guys simply take turns. Yes, some do, but most don’t. But what if a guy isn’t a top, a bottom or even versatile? What about gay men who have never engaged in anal sex and never will, ever? I think they deserve a name of their own. I call them ‘sides.'”
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October 8, 2021