Cumdumping is a misunderstood kink. We tried to get to the bottom of it.
While the BB Team is unscientifically confident that 90% of us know what “cum” is (and 99% have “cummed”), maybe only a quarter know about “cumdumping.”
BuzzFeed News reporter Michael Blackmon comes forward with a good description: “Cumdumping is when two men have unprotected anal sex and the penetrative partner ejaculates into the receptive partner’s anus. The receptive partners call themselves cumdumps. Men who are into the kink often get off on the number of loads they receive.”
So the barebacking bottom guys are the cumdumps, and their fetish is taking multiple cum loads from different tops during a session.
Blackmon notes, “Cumdumping is a misunderstood kink. We tried to get to the bottom of it.”
“Cumdumps are often reviled and shamed for their kink, but the judgment comes from people who seem to fundamentally misunderstand the fetish.”
Blackmon provides an example based on comments generated by a man’s tweet about his cumdump session that went viral. “The man, then known as @breedlacumhole, gleefully posted that he had accomplished his goal of getting 75 loads in a span of 24 hours. People made YouTube videos weighing in on the drama, which ignited a conversation around sex positivity and the limits of the phrase. The discussion mostly featured people making derisive comments about cumdumping.”
“75 loads” was even a Twitter trend for awhile. The man, now know as Ali_Adamos_🐷 @AliAdamos, did have people defending him in comments. @psylockesbf tweeted, “I just find it odd how the same folks [that] were shading that man for the 75 loads are the same ones planning to go to the sex parties in ATL for MLK weekend…what happened to that health concern yall kept bringing up?”
Blackmon writes, “Folks tend to easily dismiss or shame sex acts they don’t understand, but being a cumdump, according to those who regularly do it, isn’t just some reckless act, though there’s always a risk of STI transmission when having unprotected sex. And they say many of the misconceptions about the fetish are unfounded.”
@nyc_hole (NSFW), a 27-year-old flight attendant based in New York said, “… once I finally did come out, I realized much of why I do this is because of the satisfaction of making guys come. It was almost reassuring that I can be an object of somebody’s desire.”
Read additional personal experiences from guys that are cumdumps, and why they participate in cumdumping behavior. Also find out how and why some people help facilitate meetups and foster a sense of community. Find out how to join them…especially at an unnamed Manhattan hotel that is notorious in gay circles as a cumdumping site. Planning a trip to Gay NYC?
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Saturday February 25, 2023